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Warrior to Love®

About Philip

Philip Ayles is the Founder & President of Warrior to Love®, an author, speaker, combat veteran, veteran advocate, and wedding officiant. After 24 years in uniform, his mission now is helping others come home to themselves.

Author

Speaker

Combat Veteran

Veteran Advocate

Wedding Officiant

Portrait of Philip Ayles, Founder of Warrior to Love

Thank You & Welcome Home.

Leave your armor at the door — you are among people who understand.

My story

Purpose, service, transition, and connection.

I served 24 years in the United States Army as a Military Police Officer, Civil Affairs Team Leader, and Human Intelligence Collector. When the uniform came off, I struggled with identity, purpose, and reintegration. Through self-awareness, emotional intelligence, mindfulness, and love, I learned how to reconnect with myself, my family, and my community. Today I help veterans, first responders, and families walk that same road through Warrior to Love®.

My story begins in a working-class family in Dayton, Ohio, where I grew up searching for purpose and belonging. I became the first person in my family to graduate college — earning a bachelor’s in Criminal Justice and a master’s in Public Administration — and then gave 24 years of my life to military service, including combat operations in Iraq.

Christy Ayles
Christy Ayles — partner in life and in the mission. Meeting her taught me that connection, not armor, is where strength really lives.

Michael Iwaniusz

Co-Founder & Treasurer

(Temporary bio.) Michael helps steward the resources, finances, and partnerships that let Warrior to Love® grow from Jacksonville outward.

Michael Iwaniusz

The Army gave me leadership, resilience, and mission focus. It did not prepare me for the day the uniform came off. In 2015 I arrived in Jacksonville, Florida, living in an RV and trying to figure out who I was beyond the mission. Through reflection, faith, and relationships, I began to heal.

That journey led me to build Ayles Solutions, and eventually to found Warrior to Love®. Along the way I learned the lesson at the heart of everything we do: healing happens through connection, service, and love.

Most important life events

The road from uniform to community.

Ohio

Working-class roots

Growing up in a working-class family in Dayton, Ohio, searching for purpose and belonging.

First

First college graduate

The first in my family to earn a degree — a B.S. in Criminal Justice, then an M.P.A.

24 yrs

United States Army

Serving as a Military Police Officer, Civil Affairs Team Leader, and Human Intelligence Collector.

Iraq

Combat service

Deploying overseas, including combat operations in Iraq.

Transition

The uniform comes off

Facing the identity, purpose, and reintegration struggles so many veterans know.

2015

Jacksonville & an RV

Arriving in Florida, living in an RV, and asking who I was beyond the mission.

Christy

Meeting my wife

Learning that connection, not armor, is where real strength lives.

Awakening

Emotional intelligence

Discovering emotional intelligence, self-awareness, and mindfulness.

Ayles Solutions

Building a venture

Turning hard-won lessons into a way to serve others.

Warrior to Love®

Founding the movement

Creating a home for healing, connection, service, and belonging.

The lesson

Connection, service, love

Healing happens through connection, service, and love.

Credibility

Credibility that supports the mission.

24-Year Army Veteran

Military Police Officer, Civil Affairs Team Leader, and Human Intelligence Collector.

Combat Veteran

Service including combat operations in Iraq.

Educated Leader

Master of Public Administration and Bachelor of Criminal Justice.

Founder & President

Founder and President of Warrior to Love®.

Founder of Ayles Solutions

Founder of Ayles Solutions, a veteran-led venture.

Community Leader

Veteran Treatment Court Mentor and Community Health Outreach Board Member.

Media & public engagement

Service that continues out of uniform.

Public Speaking

Keynotes and talks on leadership, reintegration, and emotional intelligence.

Ongoing

Community Leadership

Active in community leadership events across the region.

Ongoing

Jacksonville Civic Engagement

Local civic involvement and community partnerships.

Ongoing

Podcast Appearances

Guest conversations on veteran life, healing, and purpose.

Upcoming

Veteran Advocacy

Veteran Treatment Court mentorship and community outreach.

Ongoing

More talks, appearances, and partnerships will be added as the movement grows.